Ukraine:
A Real Knockout (cont.)
The plastic donuts fascinated her.
I took photo after photo while she
placed the donuts, in the wrong order, medium sized
donut first, large donut next, sideways, smallest
and then, on top, fitting very loosely, the next to
smallest donut. Once she had the donuts in place she
never gave them another look.
Sherry reached her hands out to
get Luba to dance with her. Luba took her hands and
then just stood there. Sherry tried to do a polka
around the room, lifting Luba high off the ground
after every turn. Luba’s legs flew out backward, her
dress rose with the wind, revealing her baggie diaper
underneath. She never smiled, never fought back. She
just rolled her head back and watched the ceiling
pass in circles. I have video footage of all of this.
On the way back to the place we
were staying we talked with Irina, our translator.
“She is little girl,” Irina told
us, “She has lived whole life in orphan home. She
has not seen a dog, has not seen a cat. She does not
know who you are or why you are at.” Irina paused.
“Orphan home. You will see, tomorrow she will be different.”
We were sitting in the back of a
beat up van. Instead of a backseat, Sherry and I sat
on a large piece of foam that had been placed over
a wooden bench nailed in place where the backseat
should have been. Every time we took a turn, we braced
against the wall to keep from falling backward. Irina
faced us, sitting in a kitchen chair that had been
screwed to the floor of the van.
Sherry was concerned that Luba’s
passivity meant something else. I knew she was concerned
because as we left the orphanage she kept repeating,
“Idon’tknow. Idon’tknow.” She said the phrase like
it was one, three syllable word, squeezing all the
words together.
You are worried, I can tell,” Irina
continued. “See, I am right. I knows you. I knows
how Americans are.”
“We are just worried,” I said, trying to both answer
our questions and prod Sherry into articulating her
vague fears, in case she had some intuition I wanted
to know about.
“I knows that.”
“We are worried she has fetal alcohol
syndrome.”
“I know that. All Americans worry
about fetal alcohol. I don’t knows why you do, but
you do. All Americans think we don’t do nothing but
drink vodka in Ukraine. But what can I do?” She shrugged
her shoulders in a mock comic gesture.
“It is just that our doctor.”
“Your doctor? Who? Who is your doctor?”
In fact, before we left for Ukraine
we had hurriedly contacted two doctors, one in Chicago
who specialized in foreign adopted children, and another
in New York who called herself ‘The Orphan Doctor’,
a name that sounded at once pompous and foolish to
me, as if she were the only doctor in the US who ministered
to orphans. I took out the paperwork the New York
doctor had sent me.
“Oh,” Irina said, pulling the papers
from my hands, “The Orphan Doctor.”
“You know her.”
“Oh, yes. I tells you, Jack,” Irina
pronounced my name as if it was spelled with an extra
four Js at the beginning, “We knows the Orphan Doctor.
She makes her money scaring American.” Irina was grinning
as she said this. “Luba does not have fetal alcohol.
I knows that. But I can show you little children who
do, if you like, and you will see.”
“But we aren’t just worried about
fetal alcohol,” I paused, not sure whether to continue.
We are also worried about–“
“What, Jack, what? What are you
afraid of?”
“I don’t know.”
“You don’t know. They don’t know.
I don’t know, too. You are nervous. Is normal. Every
parent is nervous.”
We agreed we were just being nervous
parents and gave Irina permission to begin the paperwork
for the adoption.
“Now are you sure. I wants you to
be sure.”
I squeezed Sherry’s hand. It was
as sweaty as mine. She smiled softly. I nodded. “Yes,
we are sure.”
The adoption would take a week,
Irina explained, and would involve lots of visits
to lots of Ukrainian bureaucrats, each of whom had
his or her own stamp to put on the document. The process
could be stopped at anytime. Irina did not tell us
that, but we knew that was true because the American
agency told us that, adding that at each step of the
way a bureaucrat had to be convinced it was okay for
a foreigner to take away a Ukrainian child. Usually
it took a gift to convince, the more important the
bureaucrat, the most impressive the gift.
“Well, can we go to the internet
café?”
“Yes, yes, after dinner, you take
a nap, and then we go to internet café.”
As she told us this we were pulling
into the courtyard of the high rise apartment building
we were staying in. The building was part of a complex
of grey, concrete buildings, with wide, scary cracks
in the exterior, patched, if that is the right word,
with what looked like little squirts of tar.
A bunch of kids, they could have been any age between
14 and 28, were hanging out near the small dumpster,
overflowing with garbage. They wore torn shirts and
jeans. The guys looked like they had spent the last
three days in them. The women were much more artful
about their rips, slashing knees just so, ripping
the t-shirts so that they hung loose at the shoulders
and didn’t completely cover their midriffs.
Irina pushed the up button and somewhere
in the building, an elevator motor groaned to life.
When the elevator arrived the light was out inside.
Irina stepped in first, hit the right button and then
waved us in.
The elevator suddenly jolted to
a stop and just when I was mapping out a plan of what
to do for the next twelve hours while we waited for
a repair man the door slid open, revealing a tiny,
dimly light hallway, reeking of mildew and onions
and boiling potatoes.
For dinner, our hostess told Irina
to tell us she had something special that “would make
us look for home.”
“Look for home?” I repeated, a tincture
of satire in my voice.
“You knows. Look for home
return soon. This dinner will make you think about
your homes.”
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